The Internet and the Catholic Church and Other Tools of Abuse

You read “Through His Webcam, Boy Joins a Sordid Online World, and you get really freaking creeped out about what can happen to kids connected to creepy adults through the internet.

Then you can read something like The Big Al Ramos story and realize that you don’t need the internet and webcams for creepy adults to do horrible things to children. The Catholic Church heirarchy is just as effective a tool of molestation, and I’m sure there are many, many others.

There are some really insane child porn laws out there (e.g. if someone sends you child porn in email and you don’t open it, you’re still guilty because it was on your computer), and I’ve generally thought they were stupid, and well, I still do, but I can sure understand the motivation for them with investigators finding this kind of stuff happening.

So how *do* you protect your kids? Best first step I can think of to start off with is do your damndest to make sure your kids aren’t afraid to tell you anything, no matter what. Another is to give your kids the respect that you expect them to demand from other adults. Any other ideas?

Chatting with mph, who just kindly “linked the comic,”:http://mph.puddingbowl.org/archives/2005/12/release_early_r.php over lunch:

(13:49:59) Michael Hall: I also like the way the voice bubble in the second frame dips behind the character’s head. I never think to do that kind of thing. The scales have fallen from my eyes. :-)
(13:50:20) MetaEdward: heh. want to know the little micro-story behind my actually putting something up?
(13:50:26) Michael Hall: Yeah.
(13:50:53) MetaEdward: Ok, I’d been wanting to do a comic forever. But it’s *hard* to learn to draw cartoony when you’re used to working real.
(13:51:29) MetaEdward: I had been trying to concoct a “cartoon style” for a while whenever I’d had some drawing time, without much success
(13:52:05) MetaEdward: this time I tried drawing faces with nothing but two dot eyes and a mouth, that’s all. I drew them as expressively as I could, and got a few down on the page.
(13:52:31) MetaEdward: then I decided to give one a word balloon, and write whatever he looked like he was saying at the time. And then another, and another.
(13:52:54) MetaEdward: Then I tried giving them a little more detail and upper bodies, and got the characters you see there.
(13:53:07) Michael Hall: Cool. You should blog that.
(13:53:08) MetaEdward: and I kept doing the same thing, adding word balloons with whatever they looked like they were saying…
(13:53:10) MetaEdward: and there I was. :)
(13:53:23) MetaEdward: I just might; mind if I quote this IM?
(13:53:27) Michael Hall: Not at all.
(13:54:21) MetaEdward: Absolutely key, for me, was not drawing them in panels, just drawing them free on the page. It was the panels which had crushed me, previously.

Michael’s “post”:http://mph.puddingbowl.org/archives/2005/12/release_early_r.php links to a neat essay on art by his bud “sven.”:http://www.scarletstarstudios.com/blog/archives/2005/09/notes_on_making.html