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Hey Ed,
What is meant by “alternative communities”?
Thanks
A variety of things from support groups to “intentional communities” (commune type dealies). He’s had a lot of contact with the German Zegg community and discusses them a lot. http://www.zegg.de/
I haven’t read it, but it sounds like reading Bryson’s book is pretty much like talking with a friend — alternately giraffe- and jackal-speech, huh? In another communications framework, it sounds as though he’s purposefuly bringing “coyote” (Trickster) energy to the discussion with his ideas about “enlightened selfishness.”
But as I said, I haven’t read it. I’ll have to see if I can get a copy of this one, maybe from my trainer, who I think has taken some training with Bryson.
Thanks for the review.
Someone sent me the review of my book someone here wrote on this blog. I really liked it! Even the “negative” stuff. The honesty felt refreshing, definately “not nice”. Thanks for taking the interest and time to do it. Greatfully,
Kelly Bryson
Kelly, I’m glad you liked the review. I’m grateful for the book and hope more people will read it from reading my review of it!
I have reread Don’t Be Nice Be Real (DBNBR) 3 times and given it to friends. It is both exasperating for the reasons you give and deeply insightful. When I give the book to friends I tell them to let go of what they might think of Bryson’s persona. For me one of the key messages of DBNBR is to be genuine in every situation: short cuts for the sake of comfort take you on the wrong path and you, and those around you, will ultimately suffer. Bryson has led a painful life, especially in his childhood. His struggles show. He’s a like an enthusiastic geologist who looks at the sheared cliff next to the road. A little wildly he notes how the forces of nature curve and twist rock into a crazy pattern you might not even notice. I don’t know the guy. I saw DBNBR on a table at an NVC practice session and the title struck me as the key to a former partner’s “problems.” I began to read the book and my focus almost immediately turned where it truly belonged — inward. It’s one of oddest books I have ever read — and I treasure it.